Dear {{first_name | You}},
I was an accomplished, high achieving woman who never quite felt she was enough.
Despite all of my success and beautiful relationships, I still felt like I had to prove myself. And hustle. And forever do more, both personally and professionally.
I now know that I am enough. I love myself and love my life.
I want to tell you how I got here.
Recovering workaholic, type Triple-A Aries, working mom who cares deeply about all of the people around me: I burned the candle at both ends for years. That was just who I was.
Intellectually, I knew what I needed to do. I had read every book, listened to a ton of podcasts, and interviewed close to 200 of the foremost thought leaders in relationships, spirituality, trauma healing, heart and brain health, and neuroscience. People like Dr. Richard Schwartz, Dr. Shefali, Marianne Williamson, Dr. Dan Siegel, Dr. Laura Berman, and Dr. James Doty, plus many other PhDs and MDs from Harvard, Stanford, UCLA, Columbia, and The Cleveland Clinic.
I remember thinking: Why am I working this hard, and have been for years (um, decades, really) and not enjoying it?
I went to bed every night feeling disappointed that there was much I hadn't finished, and woke up earlier to try again. I felt stuck and, well, pretty broken.
Why did I feel depleted and burned out?
I had mastered mindset but I had hit a wall. It was then that I realized: I couldn't think my way to feeling free, to being peaceful, to claiming true sovereignty.
That was when I started going inward, into my body and into my belief system.
What I know now, and I say it often because I mean it every single time, is that you cannot think your way there. You cannot think your way to BEING peaceful, feeling free and truly trusting yourself.
I am not criticizing books. I wrote one. But knowing something intellectually and having it live in your body are not the same thing. As I pulled these elements together, I realized what I was doing was not mindset. It was heartset.
I rewired my nervous system. And my belief system. I developed self trust. And it changed everything, massively.
Things in my life can still be challenging. I run a business in an industry being completely disrupted. I have two teenage sons. I am married. I am reinventing my career. My mother recently died and I am holding my grieving dad in a way that feels like a miracle.
The other evening I was sitting on my porch in Colorado, facing the most gorgeous ponderosa pine, evergreens and my beloved mountains. It had been a TOUGH day. I looked up and there was a cloud formation that was unmistakable. Check her out:
A perfectly shaped phoenix had risen from the ashes and formed in the clouds.
I have been looking at her every day since. Every time I do, I think: this is for me. This is through me.
That is what practicing Heartset does. That is what it looks like when you go within and find peace and worthiness within you, so you can sit quietly, without your phone or distractions, and feel GOOD. To feel grateful and joyful. Simply sitting. Simply knowing that you are exactly where you are supposed to be.
What I am into these days is chronic peace.
Not just feeling okay, not just getting through. Chronic peace. There is not enough of it in the world and I am so here for it. Oh! With a big side helping of fun!
I am genuinely glad I started doing this work when I did. My relationship with my kids, my husband and my dad have transformed. I cannot put a dollar value on that.
I am sharing this with you because I know what is possible for you, too, and I want you to have it.
When you do this work, everything changes. The space you can hold for the people you love expands. You show up differently and your relationships are typically transformed. Not because the people around you change. Because you have. They can't not change.
And honestly, the annoying ones either leave your life or they become a lot less annoying. I mean that. It is basically physics. When we change our vibe, when we increase our energetic and emotional baseline, our Heartset, everything around us changes.
I urge you to invest in your Heartset for you. Not for your kids, not for your partner, not for your work. Because you deserve it independent of anything you have to give to anybody else. This is your sacred, miraculous life. And in a very cool way, all of those priorities just happen to be positively impacted as a result of how you show up FOR YOURSELF.
I cannot tell you how gratifying it is for me to experience these profound changes in my own life, and to hear from so many of the people I work with. Here are some of the things that light me up.
This past week I taught a live class. By the end, the chat looked like this:
Previ: "I feel so calm right now."
Stacy: "I feel bubbly and effervescent."
Zhang: "Sacred miracle."
Ana Maria: "This has been the best class I have ever been to."
I share this all with you because this is what I want FOR YOU!!! This is why I have developed Heartset.
Over the long weekend I heard from so many of you. I see every message. Because of that I am keeping the founding price for Heartset LIVE open through midnight June 5th. $1,495 for a program valued at $3,914. Over 50% off.
Prefer to split it? You can also enroll in three payments.
Heartset LIVE is for the woman who has done the work. The therapy. The books. The meditation apps. The journaling. And she still cannot quite get out of her own way. She is accomplished. She is capable. She shows up for everyone in her life. And she is quietly depleted.
She does not need more information. She needs to feel different in her own body. She needs to come home to herself.
That is what we do together. Six live sessions starting June 10th. You will learn to regulate your nervous system, reprogram the beliefs that have been quietly running your life, and come home to the woman you actually are. Not the one you have been performing.
You've nailed your mindset. Now it's time to master your Heartset.
Imagine waking up tomorrow in your same life and feeling completely different in it. That is Heartset.
If you have been sitting with this, I invite you to say YES to yourself. To say YES to chronic peace. To say YES to feeling free and connected in ways that are SO powerful, so energizing.
Everything is at loveandempowermentsummit.com/heartset-live, or just reply to this email. I would love to hear from you.
Radiating with you,
Andrea
P.S. If private one-on-one work feels like what you need, a few spots are still open for individual coaching. A 45-minute discovery call is the place to start. You can book it at calendly.com/heartset-yourtango/45min.
And if you want to stay connected through the community while you decide, Heartset Society is where we connect daily in the community and monthly via zoom, and so much more. You can join at powerofmanifestation.circle.so/checkout/heartset-society.